I don't wanna be in love

sometimes i wonder how relations change within a faction of a second. be it with your parents, friends, brothers or sisters or anyone you simply love. or is it the reaction that seems momentary but built upon a deep abysss that has no end to insults and injuries? whatever the situation, the change always hurts and one is left wondering how to react, heartbreak aside.
or is it okay to change with time?
i don't know. what i do know is that i am faced with a little confusion in life.
and how does one dare enter a new relationship when the old ones fail...

Or is it some more humble lay,
Familiar matter of to-day?
Some natural sorrow, loss, or pain,
That has been, and may be again?


THE above mentioned are lines from Solitary Reaper.

Yes, in matters of relationship there is no easy answer. One can think hard enough but may turn out an emotional fool at the time of reckoning!!
If only i had something like a magical polygraph... But no one should be pushed to the limits... if you can understand them then it is fine and good...otherwise just LEAVE THEM ALONE...

Plz dont push anyone to the brink of embracing Keats philosophy
"Now more than ever seems it rich to die,
To cease upon the midnight with no pain."

I also remember this song

feel the beat now
if you got nothing left
say i don't wanna be in love
i don't wanna be in love.