I don't wanna be in love

sometimes i wonder how relations change within a faction of a second. be it with your parents, friends, brothers or sisters or anyone you simply love. or is it the reaction that seems momentary but built upon a deep abysss that has no end to insults and injuries? whatever the situation, the change always hurts and one is left wondering how to react, heartbreak aside.
or is it okay to change with time?
i don't know. what i do know is that i am faced with a little confusion in life.
and how does one dare enter a new relationship when the old ones fail...

Or is it some more humble lay,
Familiar matter of to-day?
Some natural sorrow, loss, or pain,
That has been, and may be again?


THE above mentioned are lines from Solitary Reaper.

Yes, in matters of relationship there is no easy answer. One can think hard enough but may turn out an emotional fool at the time of reckoning!!
If only i had something like a magical polygraph... But no one should be pushed to the limits... if you can understand them then it is fine and good...otherwise just LEAVE THEM ALONE...

Plz dont push anyone to the brink of embracing Keats philosophy
"Now more than ever seems it rich to die,
To cease upon the midnight with no pain."

I also remember this song

feel the beat now
if you got nothing left
say i don't wanna be in love
i don't wanna be in love.

friendship

I have always been an introvert although i open up with my close friends. I also taketime in striking a friendship. And as the world celebrates Friendship day, i decided to reflect a little bit on one of the most comforting relationships of life.
The need to have friends arises out of very basic desire- to share. And it is very important to have someone in life you can share your deep thoughts with. But there is also a dark side to it. Over dependence on anyone ultimately leads to heart break. And the person loses himself in the process of consultation. At least this is what i experienced to some extent. Friends are a gift but a deceitful friend is nastier than a powerful enemy.

thanx journo

Can journalism be taught and learnt?This is something any student in the Makhanlal university would readily answer in the affirmative as after the conclusion of a two day workshop on interview techniques the students have the opportunity to learn the basics of journalism from two eminent tv journalists-mr Hemender Sharma and mr Manoj Sharma.

Learning from the experiences of others is one of the wisest things anyone who dreams of succeeding can do.

What is evident after hearing the two journos is that today journalism is not just about disseminating information,it's equally important for a journalist to continuously pursue new ideas that would entertain and make good business!Technology has to be made optimum use of.

Everyone highlights the need to be humble with a self respecting attitude.
But there are guys like Mr Vinay Upadhyay who do not shy away from publicly declaring how they play with the emotions of interviewees.An incident where the respected sir forced his fellow journalists to touch the feet of Pandit Jasraj in order to get an ainterview of the famous maestro clearly indicates that a student of journalism will always be in a dilemma in deciding what's right and what's trash!Probably this is what explains the phenomena of sometimes futile intense discussions that take place inside the compact classes of the Makhanlal university.

I really look forward to the two journos not to get diverted and seriously share their experiences with us,so that the university does not have to wait long to mention in it's prospectus another name that's a BBC staffer!!